Welcome to my Parlor…

I am delighted you have landed in my web of decadence. You should find yourself right at home, how will you ever emerge?

The Power of knowing oneself is to understand the depth of humanity in all its darkness and all its light.

I am a talented and caring “Psychic Waste Manager”. I take all your old matter that has been weighing you down and clean it up for you, recycling it into a bright and shiny newness, allowing you to return to the mundane world with more pep in your step and vim in your vigor!

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I’m super proud and pleased with My Private Lair where I conduct private sessions and offer it as an Erotic Sleepover Spot and hourly play space. The Violet Room is for travelers seeking open minded, friendly, and sex positivity for their visits to San Francisco. Please see my listing www.airbnb.com or my FetLife page for more information.

My Writings

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Kinky Curiosity: Finding A Perfect Provider

Recently, I’ve received several queries from folks interested in Escorts who provide kinky services. In fact, with the film production of “fifty shades of gray” to be released in February, we will probably see more possibilities to not only discuss kink more openly, but probably also see more Escorts offering BDSM services. I know some […]

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Searching For Love: Three Ways to Find a Kinky Partner

Several years ago, I was dining with an acquaintance who was a therapist. Chatting casually with mutual interest, midway through the meal she puts down her fork and looks at me from across the table and asks “do you think if we lived in another world, your work would not exist”? Now, assuming she meant […]

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Folsom Flavors and More…

 Originally published at eveminax.com on September 19, 2014 Welcome to Leather Week here in San Francisco! The attached image is me with a “friend” at Folsom Street Fair 2010. So much going on this week: leather history with Cleo Dubois and Fakir Musafar, a talk on the history of the Folsom Street Fair with the […]

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PROPENSITY + EXPERIENCE = WISDOM

Metaphysically motivated, I am a cultural interloper whose explorations in literature, spirituality, gender theory, theatre, circus, clowning and sex work have helped make me the generous, sensual, compassionate, and kinky woman I am. Most of my adult life has been spent teaching or performing, hence my understanding of how theatrics and personal training converge to create magical reality is immense.

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