I’m Mistress Eve Minax, welcome to my parlour…

Dominatrix in San Francisco


Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, Masochism, (BDSM), and Kink – each complex terms in their own right – and bandied together often creating misunderstanding and confusion. Want to learn more? Relax, I’ve got you…

Dominatrix San Francisco

I was initially drawn to BDSM and kink through my immense curiosity, deep sense of adventure, and an immense drive for clear consent. Immediately, I began to recognize this realm as a profound resource for self development and healing. Twenty years later, as a professional dominatrix,  I find myself continuing the work of clarifying confusion, guilt, and shame around desire through extended erotic explorations around gender and sexuality.

If you find any of this resonates for you, then you’ve come to the right place.

Upon your initial contact with me, I will want to hear about your interests and experiences thus far, and why, specifically, you are reaching out to me. I will provide you with an initial consultation to determine how I may meet your needs and continue to fulfill my life’s work. Once we have determined compatibility, we will organize a meeting where we will begin the process of meeting those needs in a more discreet atmosphere. Rest assured, no judgments, and if I cannot provide what you seek, I will refer you to a colleague who will.

Not sure what you are looking for?

I can help with that as well.

With compassion, commitment, and extreme delight in the work, let’s explore a myriad of possibilities to liberate a better you safely in my care!

The Power of knowing oneself is to understand the depth of humanity in all its aspects.

A talented and caring “Psychic Waste Manager,” I take all the old matter that has been weighing you down and clean it up for you, recycling it into a bright and shiny newness, allowing you to return to the mundane world with more pep in your step and vitality!


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Recent Blog Posts

bdsm and its healing powers

Healing Through BDSM

How does BDSM facilitate personal growth? If you’ve been following my writing over the years, you may have learned that I live with transgenerational trauma which led me to experience BDSM as instrumental to my healing process. Although technically I was kinky from the beginning of my sexual explorations, it was only when I read […]

Peg Your Heart Out and Feel it Too!

Walking into the lobby of Catalystcon West 2014, I wondered what my purpose was being there. Sure, I had a panel wherein we would discuss the complications around private vs public in the sex lives of industry people, but surely there was more. Within a half an hour of being in the lobby, I was […]

Mistress Eve

Some Thoughts on Dominance and Submission

As a devoted Dominatrix, I think about and practice Dominant/submissive relationships. The conflux of dominance and submission is ambiguous at best: how about control and surrender? Indeed, all relationships involve power exchange, usually implicit or ignored.  D/s relationships represent power exchange with a twist: explicitness. They are intentional in that they acknowledge the intrinsic elements […]

Did you know educating people about BDSM and Kink gives me a huge boner?

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Professional Education and Bondassage Training

Bondassage and Elysium Training

If you’re thinking about improve your bodywork practice, or would just like to expand your repertoire and delight those you touch, I invite you to explore Bondassage® training ~ a delightfully sensual, truly unique experience that will have your friends, partners, lovers, and clients clamoring for more.

You’ll gain the skills and the tools you need to create the outrageously unique Bondassage Experience for your friends, lovers, or clients. Expand your skill set and delight those you touch.

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Dominatrix Training

One Day Dominatrix Training focusing on anything from 101 to intense procedures. Based on your needs/interests.

Two Day Dominatrix Training includes special interests like Cross Dressing, D/s/ both Fantasy and Reality, service and protocol, all fetishes, how to conduct scenes from playful fantasy to intense scenarios, can include e-stim, catheters, sounds, needles or any other desires you may have.

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