Welcome to my Parlor…

I am delighted you have landed in my web of decadence. You should find yourself right at home, how will you ever emerge?

The Power of knowing oneself is to understand the depth of humanity in all its darkness and all its light.

I am a talented and caring “Psychic Waste Manager”. I take all your old matter that has been weighing you down and clean it up for you, recycling it into a bright and shiny newness, allowing you to return to the mundane world with more pep in your step and vim in your vigor!

Upcoming Classes

Learn CBT With Me! Thursday, July 23 2015 8:00pm – 10:00pm

Everybody’s favorite GILF Betty White has said “Why do people say “grow some balls”? Balls are weak and sensitive. If you wanna be tough, grow a vagina. Those things can take a pounding.” She’s got a point. In this class, go beyond growing a pair to owning a pair! How do you dominate his junk without harming it? From pleasant to excruciating physical and psychological methods, we will cover the range that make CBT an expansive and indispensable skill set. Some techniques you will learn include: cock and ball bondage, edging, milking, sensation play, pressure, weights, predicament play, and training games. Although we will focus on the human bits known as cock and balls, much of the material is relevant to all genders. So come with a pair to play with or a pair to share. Bring your curiosity and desire to learn!  Click here for more info.

Erotic Dominance Intensive: August 1 @ 7:00 pm – August 3 @ 9:00 pm

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Erotic Dominance Intensive: October 2 @ 7:00 pmOctober 4 @ 9:00 pm

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Erotic Dominance Intensive for Women: Tops & Switches – October 2-4, 2015 – Now in its 13th year!

Ignite the Passion of Your Radical Sexuality!

Discover new ways to raise that delicious sexual energy that empowers us and our relationships. During this Intensive, you not only will learn new skills and hone those you have, you will explore the psychology, physicality, sexuality and spirituality of BDSM. Our 3-to-1 student/staff ratio ensures that you get lots of one-on-one attention.

DomCon Guest of Honor for 2015

Rent my wonderful and fully equipped Dungeon

I’m super proud and pleased with my cozy and sinister Lair where I conduct private sessions and offer it as an erotic sleepover spot and hourly play space.

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Professional Training

Bondassage Training

If you’re thinking about expanding your practice, or would just like to expand your repertoire and delight those you touch, I would like to invite you to explore Bondassage® training ~ a delightfully sensual, truly unique experience that will have your friends, partners, lovers, and clients clamoring for more.

You’ll gain the skills and the tools you need to create the outrageously unique Bondassage Experience for your friends, lovers, or clients. Expand your skill set and delight those you touch.

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Dominatrix Training

One Day Dominatrix Training focusing on anything from 101 to intense procedures. Based on your needs/interests.

Two Day Dominatrix Training includes special interests like Cross Dressing, D/s/ both Fantasy and Reality, service and protocol, all fetishes, how to conduct scenes from playful fantasy to intense scenarios, can include e-stim, catheters, sounds, needles or any other desires you may have.

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My Writings

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Kinky Curiosity: Finding A Perfect Provider

Recently, I’ve received several queries from folks interested in Escorts who provide kinky services. In fact, with the film production of “fifty shades of gray” to be released in February, we will probably see more possibilities to not only discuss kink more openly, but probably also see more Escorts offering BDSM services. I know some […]

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Searching For Love: Three Ways to Find a Kinky Partner

Several years ago, I was dining with an acquaintance who was a therapist. Chatting casually with mutual interest, midway through the meal she puts down her fork and looks at me from across the table and asks “do you think if we lived in another world, your work would not exist”? Now, assuming she meant […]

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Folsom Flavors and More…

 Originally published at eveminax.com on September 19, 2014 Welcome to Leather Week here in San Francisco! The attached image is me with a “friend” at Folsom Street Fair 2010. So much going on this week: leather history with Cleo Dubois and Fakir Musafar, a talk on the history of the Folsom Street Fair with the […]

Philosophy

PROPENSITY + EXPERIENCE = WISDOM

Metaphysically motivated, I am a cultural interloper whose explorations in literature, spirituality, gender theory, theatre, circus, clowning and sex work have helped make me the generous, sensual, compassionate, and kinky woman I am. Most of my adult life has been spent teaching or performing, hence my understanding of how theatrics and personal training converge to create magical reality is immense.

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