Welcome to my Parlor…

I am delighted you have landed in my web of decadence. You should find yourself right at home, how will you ever emerge?

The Power of knowing oneself is to understand the depth of humanity in all its darkness and all its light.

I am a talented and caring “Psychic Waste Manager”. I take all your old matter that has been weighing you down and clean it up for you, recycling it into a bright and shiny newness, allowing you to return to the mundane world with more pep in your step and vim in your vigor!

Rent my wonderful and fully equipped Dungeon

I’m super proud and pleased with My Private Lair where I conduct private sessions and offer it as an Erotic Sleepover Spot and hourly play space. The Violet Room is for travelers seeking open minded, friendly, and sex positivity for their visits to San Francisco. Please see my listing www.airbnb.com or my FetLife page for more information.

My Writings

Sex Positive Labor

The Fruits of Our Sex Positive Labor

Teaching is fantastically underrated and yet it never fails to give me a sense of accomplishment. One of my intrinsic core values is knowledge, (both sides, teaching and learning), hence, I am a long time advocate of sharing and exchanging knowledge. Secrets (around knowledge) do not intrigue me as I know we cannot know all, […]

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Playing With Power: Dominance and Submission

Consensual Dominance and submission in relationships reflect an intentional acknowledgement and exploration of intrinsic power dynamics in an erotic fashion. These relationships draw upon the nature of the relationship, (the “bossier” person, more educated, older etc tend to traditionally be the “dominant”), to play with the already established power exchange. Conversely, some of these relationships […]

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What Does a Dominatrix Look Like to You? by Eve Minax

“Come to the edge, he said. They said: We are afraid. Come to the edge, he said. They came. He pushed them and they flew.”  Guillaume Apollinaire One of my Sisyphean challenges in life is to demystify the myth of the Dominatrix – to fill out the missing gaps and one-dimensional characteristics that permeate our […]

Philosophy

PROPENSITY + EXPERIENCE = WISDOM

Metaphysically motivated, I am a cultural interloper whose explorations in literature, spirituality, gender theory, theatre, circus, clowning and sex work have helped make me the generous, sensual, compassionate, and kinky woman I am. Most of my adult life has been spent teaching or performing, hence my understanding of how theatrics and personal training converge to create magical reality is immense.

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